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Wednesday, 11 June 2008
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Stick to a Wiser Theory
To have been long enough into the dating scenario I wasn’t one of the quirky men who had any trouble getting a date. But obviously it was more like keeping the right one. Women unlike men have the strangest fascination for rocks and trinkets and with them mixed and match at varied degrees. If you are likely to woo someone with a ring but not sure where the relationship stands then obviously go for a cheap one. Make sure its fanciful enough or matches with her favorite color or the dress she wears more often. Got a tawny shade of diamond turned purple? Yeah, dude, go on for it! Just make sure that you got a silly thing turned lavender because you know its her favorite perfume or bath oil or reminds of her nursery girl friend who was called Lavender or whatever or something!!!! Well, women do get sentimental about such things though I don’t know myself why. Don’t ask me any further. Just make sure that you have your homework done right and know what her favorite color or perfume is. Knowing a bit of memories also help. Women can get very sentimental about dates and occasions like that. So make a note of those when you want to be successful in a relationship. She would never forgive you for not bringing her roses on Rose Day or wishing her on Women’s Day or the first date you had together or even remembering her cat’s death day for that matter! So do your share of hard work. And if you forget a date here and there, there is nothing better than a tinted diamond ring that is otherwise on the lower end of the price list.
So be there and get your goodies working all right. Make sure you have the right engagement ring when you seriously propose someone. No tinting there I mean! Pull out the tinted ones for fun but don’t expect to be forgiven or given the due respect if you get her a rose tinted ring of brownish diamond that weans off by wedding day. Don’t let your love wean off that way. Preserve it for good!
Are you feeling stuffed already?
Oh ya if you want to keep her these things are important!
Friday, 18 April 2008
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Buying Engagement Rings That Rock!
So you fancy taking your girl friend by surprise with the engagement proposal? How would you then plan for an engagement ring that simply sweeps her off her feet and christen you as her knight in the shining armor?
When you want to jump ahead by surprising her the engagement rings, save your excitement for the moment and concentrate instead on some research work first? Research on what? On what ticks her, mister? Believe me, it’s far more complicated than the blocks that you might put in order to describe her interests…but its not all that hard either! What really ticks her maybe complicated enough but will definitely make you a hit once you have analyzed her basic needs. So surprise her with a ring that she will adore for life by doing the homework right! Not only would you have to learn about her lifestyle, needs, inner ideas of romance, etc. but you will also have to understand her hand structure and shape of her fingers. For this you might as well have to consult a stylist in the jewelry department on what looks well on different hand shapes. Any woman would hate her lover if the ring gifted by him made her plum hands look plumper or scrawny hands look scrawnier. So it is hoped that you understand the need to get that balance in her fingers so that the slimness of fingers get matched with a rounded shape stone or plump hands get balanced with a edgier looking shape, for that matter. A beginner’s guide to understanding the diamond shapes as well ring shapes for that matter, as advocated by your stylist in the jewelry department. The online guide base also offers you quirky tips on how to mix and match the different styles that compliment the particular shapes and metal in engagement rings.
You also need to take a peek into her jewelry likes and dislikes. Does she prefer vintage stuff or is she fond of contemporary, interesting styles? But remember that the engagement rings would be worn by her! So don’t get too fanciful here as you would have to consider the kind of work atmosphere she has and also look at the practical sides of her daily lifestyle. Something too fanciful might not fit in with her everyday attire and you really don’t want to put her down with something that interferes with her daily affairs!
When considering to buy your girl friend a diamond ring, first take a loose diamond and show her to see if she likes the shape. This may not be surprising enough but also looks at the practical and sensitive side of yourself as a lover. If your girl is not into diamonds then it would be a good idea to consider other variations of colored gemstones. You can even. You can go for wonderful turquoise or even emeralds or topaz or ruby to get that desired look on your beloved’s ring.
Consider variations other than standard gold ring. Though it has been a tradition to gift one’s beloved with the usual gold band, women these days lean towards platinum or white gold even. Make sure you know her preferences regarding the appropriate metal for an engagement ring. You can broach the topic in an indirect way as your surprise element could get all that blatant with a more conventional way of asking. Broach the idea as just a casual topic. She’ll be glad when she finds out later that you have got her desired choice. Either way she’ll be happy that you remember
Friday, 04 April 2008
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Finding A Great Piece Of Diamond For Your Engagement Ring
When we look at diamond rings closely the quality of diamond has to be supreme to make it stand out. After the cut it is definitely the clarity of the diamond that you should look forward too. This and some more tips on spotting the best diamond that you can afford will make you a pro in choosing your engagement ring!
It is not always true that a high quality clarity is important while choosing a great piece of diamond. This isn’t the only thing that makes your diamond brilliantly sparkling as we discussed already how the cut is primarily important. However clarity is often mistaken as the kind of sparkle and brilliance that occurs due to some great cuts. But clarity however refers to the presence of microscopic features that naturally grow within a diamond. As a diamond crystallizes, its clarity develops. When this is seen under the ready, visible eyes, without any form of magnification, then these crystals might reduce the beauty and texture of the diamond. A poor quality may greatly reduce the overall value of a diamond. Otherwise clarity does little to impact upon the quality of the attractiveness of the diamond.
There is also a misconception that the bigger the carat of the diamond, the more attractive it is. This is totally wrong as to maintain the carat size of a piece of diamond, minimal cuts are done on its surface. So the better and finer the cuts are the more you will expect it to shine forth with brilliance. The brilliance has nothing to do with carat weight.
But often one can enjoy massive savings knowing all the difference that a carat makes. A carat basically has ten points and the cost of diamond increases with the increase in the carat. As a diamond reaches a full carat point of 100, its price automatically increases and it only gets higher with the each carat thereafter. The trick is to buy a diamond with 90 points. A 9/10ths carat would make a great difference rather than a full carat. One gets to make a great saving even after restoring wonderful brilliance and attractiveness. A 1.90 carat thus works great rather than a full 2 carat too and thus you end up saving even when you need to use so much in your piece of accessory. When its set no one gets to note the difference but one enjoys great dividends by looking at these minor aspects.
While choosing for an engagement ring, consider shapes that appeal to you other than round. There are several exciting shapes such as princess, heart and emerald that look very elegant and glamorous choices for an engagement ring. But when the cut is brilliant it makes a lot of difference as well. If you are looking for a larger looking diamond then you must understand that round diamonds look smaller than other shapes even though the carat and size remains same. On the other hand, oval, pear-shape or marquise will look larger.
If you want to impress your fiancé with a cluster of diamonds on your engagement ring then it’s a good idea to go for the Tiffany-style setting that might cost around $7,500. But a ring containing three stones with a total weight of full one carat would cost $3,250. In fact going for a diamond with a total of 9 diamonds would only cost around $2,000 or less. So it is always a good idea to go for several pieces of smaller diamonds than a large, single piece.
Friday, 28 March 2008
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Engagement Rings Disaster!
I have had one of the wackiest experiences trying to persuade a girlfriend. I did the dreadful mistake of proposing her with a rather cheap diamond ring that was modified into a glittering violet hue. Its not that my mindset was cheap or something. But really guys that was a tough time in my life and I was one desperate soul for love. So I had fallen for this awesome girl head-over-heels, literally. But woe to my woes I had no idea of her rich taste. She had a plush job and a very solid family to back her up as well. You can consider how desperate I was that I did all I could do please her, spending more thoughts and energy onto her when I should have been looking for a new job. My biggest mistake was this cheap imitation. She was all turned over to have received my munificence. But a lady of her world knowledge soon found out what the real thing was. The ring was tossed out of the window along with me!!!!
Well, quite literally you see! Bringing the woman you wanna woo a fake scenario is as best as ruining your relationship fast or cutting its life shorter than expected. This was one of the biggest dating lessons of my life. Within a couple days of being dumped I started looking for a new job and with that my worn out mind also revamped. So in life or love or any aspect it is the wisest to call a spade a spade If you are low on cash then go for the cheaper white ones or even the brownish ones but don’t pretend to give something you know isn’t what it looks to be. If you are going for a imitated one tell her it is so, and to wait for the better one until you are not so strapped for cash! Trust me guys, you’ll be appreciated for life better even if the date doesn’t work out. So, no more shilly shallying or color imitation. You can go for cheaper gold’s or even gorgeous looking American diamond studs than going to make her believe that this is the next best thing you could get for her when all it would sometime do is turn her finger green or purple as the color would begin to wear off!
Friday, 08 February 2008
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Wedding Rings - Weight
It wasn't a disaster, but it could have been. I've been somewhat troubled by water retention, particularly during some times of the month. I wasn't really thinking ahead when I did my ring sizing for my wedding rings. Since Zach had asked my Mom for my ring size weeks earlier and when he actually proposed, he presented me with a beautiful diamond solitaire in just the right size.
Things got really hectic with all the wedding planning and fittings and everything so I guess I lost a little more weight than I realized, because when I went in for my final wedding dress fitting, It was too big, The alterations crew at the bridal shop said it wasn't unusual to lose some weight due to stress. Anyway, they went to work and did the necessary alterations which were finished three days before the wedding date.
When I started getting ready the morning of the wedding, I found my wedding dress was again too big. I knew it had been altered once, so didn't understand why it was still too big. Fortunately the wedding planner was prepared for everything and she quickly made some discreet adjustments so that the fit was okay. I did feel just a little bit basted together, but no one else could tell.
Everything went fine during the ceremony until just after we had exchanged rings. I noticed that my wedding rings were really loose. I looked at them rather stupidly, I'm sure and thought either the best man was playing a rather insensitive prank on Zach, or that Zach had put HIS ring on my finger. But his ring fit him perfectly, so I knew that couldn't be the problem.
At this point, I tried to collect myself and pretend that nothing had happened, resolving that even if the best man was also Zach's brother, I was going to kill him right after the honeymoon. The minister said "You may kiss the bride" and I handed my bouquet to my maid of honor and started to put my hands up to Zach's shoulder quickly. Too quickly, as it turned out, because the ring was so loose it went flying off in the general direction of my mother sitting in the front pew.
Before it was found and returned, the ring bearer and three of my bridesmaids were down on the floor looking for the ring. Thank goodness that the wedding planner had that covered too. For the entire reception I wore a piece of rubber band wrapped around the inside of the ring to hold it in place.
It turned out, when I weighed myself, I had lost about 20 pounds in the course of a month. So, my advice is to make sure that you do a double check on ring sizes before the wedding ceremony.


